Thursday 29 August 2013

Beverly Osu: “I Did Not Have Sex With Angelo…I Still Love Him” | Readthe BBA

Beverly-Osu
What did you say Beverly?!
Big Brother Africa: The Chase finalists Beverly Osu and Melvin Oduah sat down
today with media personalities IK Osakioduwa and Anita “Omalicha” Isedeh on
Rhythm 93.7 FM’s Morning Show for their first official interview, since they
arrived in Nigeria.
Beverly dropped some bombshells while Melvin spoke on his plan to take over
Nollywood. Check out some answers to questions asked.
 On Angelo’s Girlfriend Candice
I don’t want to talk about his so called girlfriend because I don’t know
anything about her.
On if she engaged in any sexual activities with Angelo
I did not have sex with Angelo. I loved him and I still love him. I would get
married to Angelo if I had the chance.
On the Bathtub scene (Where she appears to be having sex with Angelo)
I’ll still say nothing happened between me and Angelo.
On her BBA: The Chase strategy
I talk a lot. My strategy was nothing. I just went with the flow.
On featuring in a porn production by Afrocandy (A Nigerian-US based actress)
Afrocandy nibo? No ooo!!! Thanks for the offer but NO.
On her plans for the future
I’ll continue with my online reality show “Beverly Says” and I’ll finish
school. That’s what is important now.
The former reality hunk showed off his pecs to on-air-personality Omalicha,
and spoke on Dillish and his plans
On Dillish Winning
As you progress in the game, you’ll feel more confident that you’ll win the
money.  But still I knew it could be anyone of us. I don’t love Dillish,
we’re just cool
On his acting career
I’m taking my acting career to the next level. That’s what Nigerians should
expect from me. More movies.

Basketmouth and Dakore to host Nollywood Movies Awards 2013

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Basketmouth and Dakore Egbuson-Akande will host this year’s edition of the Nollywood Movies Awards.
Organizers made this known recently while reeling out plans for this year’s activities for the awards which is in its second year.
The award will hold on Saturday, October 12, 2013 at Intercontinental Hotel, Victoria Island, Lagos. The nominees will be unveiled on September 7, 2013 at The African Bar of The Oriental Hotel, Lekki.
The movie awards show which debuted in June 2012 will add six new categories: Best Short Movie, Best Child Actor, Best Soundtrack, Best Set Design, Top Box Office Movie and Best Diaspora Movie.
‘We plan to make this year’s award show bigger and better’, Executive Director, Alfred Soro says.
The last time we saw Dakore and Basketmouth on stage together was at the 2008 edition of The Headies (known then as HipHopWorld Award).

Tuesday 27 August 2013

Lady Gaga Appalled Over Boos For One Direction During VMAs

Lady Gaga
Lady Gaga was angered during Sunday Night's MTV Video Music Awards when British boy band One Direction was booed by the crowd.
The group, consisting of members Harry Styles, Niall Horan, Louis Tomlinson, Zayn Malik and Liam Payne, was booed following their win for Best Song Of The Summer for single "Best Song Ever", and Gaga, who kicked off the 2013 awards show with a performance of her new single "Applause", sought out the band backstage to show her support.
"If I did hear what I heard out there, I just want to tell you that you deserve every bit of success that you have. And don't you dare let those people boo you... I want to leave right now. I don't want to stay anymore because I don't want to be in a room where people would be like that," she was heard telling the boys in backstage film footage.
In addition to the booing incident, the band took the stage earlier in the night to present an award, during which Styles's ex-girlfriend Taylor Swift was spotted on camera mouthing the words "Shut the f*** up" to Selena Gomez.

Burna Boy Arrested for Slapping Silverbird Ticket Sales Girl

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A number of records have shown up that of the nigeria‘s most prominent vocalists and Globacom recent Brand Ambassador, Burna Boy, hit a girl hard in the face; poured his drinks and humiliated her; the young lady is a Silverbird Cinemas ticket sales person in Port Harcourt. This attack resulted in the timely apprehension of the artist by the regional authorities.
According to the eyewitness who tweeted utilizing the handle @ The 7 Day Theory, the singer was said to have had a run-in with the woman and before anybody could possibly intervene, he had slapped the poor girl and went ahead to throw his drinks on her.
@bbboy

What Men Want In Bed

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Thank God this is another Tuesday and SexVille has come to my rescue, yet again. I always look forward to Tuesdays and I know you do too. The amount of calls I get, messages, Facebook likes and comments has been amazing and I am encouraged by what you guys have been saying. The advice, the comments and the criticism have been tremendous and I am happy doing this. Today, we want to talk about what we (men) want in bed. You women think sex is meant for you alone right? You got it all wrong. We also have our needs and wants when it comes to sex. You might think you have sexy down to a science. But do you know what men actually want in a lover? Let’s do this!
Enthusiasm
When it comes to sex, you can get an “A” for effort. But for us guys, we want our women to be actually into sex with enthusiasm and not just effort. You can sleep with a man all night, change positions, somersault severally, but without having the enthusiasm in your act, the man will be a mere projector because all he will do is to keep pumping in and out, just knowing that he is doing his job without his mind in it. He is going through the motions but according to a certified sex educator and author of The Big O: Orgasms: How to Have Them, Give Them, and Keep Them Coming, Lou Paget, “There is nothing more seductive than an enthusiastic lover. That beats out the perfect body or the perfect face anytime. A man wants feedback that a woman is into doing things with him.”
New Tricks
I am saying this as a man and believe or not, we want a lover who is willing to try new things from time to time. Just be open to new ideas, new tricks and new methods of doing even the old things right. “Sexual desire is like an appetite,” says Paget. “We all want to try different flavors, otherwise, we’d get bored eating at the same place all the time. Men want someone who is willing to explore unique feelings and new sensations.” Remember the local cliché that a man does not eat egusi soup all the time? The statement has nothing to do with changing women by men but in his woman being able to change and tweak things to make a fresh round of sex feel new. Worried that whatever you do is suddenly going to become part of your nightly repertoire? Don’t think of it as a can of worms. Most likely, the occasional change-up is all he needs.
Praise
Most women erroneously believe they are the only ones who deserve praises, the ones who need reassurance about their appearance or their performance in bed, but you are wrong here. Men also get insecure, too. A lover who will find something to compliment and worship about her partner will never lack affection from him. “Every man wants to know they have that special something that turns a woman on,” says Paget. “It could be something that turns her head or something like his intelligence or sense of humor that she finds incredibly sexy.”
Bossiness
I know my men folk will skin me for mentioning this but it’s not a cliché, ladies. A man wants a woman who will tell him what to do, at least in the bedroom. Most guys will be thankful for a little instruction, especially if it means they’ll succeed at pleasuring you. “A woman who can guide you with sounds or one word responses, is preferred as it takes away the guess work,” says Paget. “Just remember to avoid acting like a sexual traffic cop!” Now let me ask my guys: who would you prefer: a woman that tells you what to do to make her happy or the one who just lies like a log of wood and allows you to take every initiative and guess what to do to her?
Confidence
Men want someone who will leave the lights on and let him get a good look at her. Stop worrying about covering up any squishy parts. Indirect lighting is Nollywood’s best friend and it can be yours as well Men are visual creatures and they want to see their partners. It’s a big part of their turn-on factor.
Love on the Brain
A woman who keeps sex in the forefront of her thoughts, knows how to inject it into life outside the bedroom, and that’s sexy. Try sex-ting him or be extra naughty and playful in public and see the result when you get home. “Do it in a discreet way,” say Paget. “Let your partner know that you’re thinking about sex throughout the day. Remember, your brain is your sexual power source.”
Try these anytime and see your man glue to you.
But it must be with your better half.
Am Out.

Iyanya Warnings over hes FACEBOOK ACCOUNT



Nigerian, Song Writer/Singer & Co-Owner Made Men Music Group musician Inyanya   has released a statement disclaiming reports of fraud by someone claiming to be him on Facebook.
On Monday, August 26, 2013, Inyanya has made the following statement available via Twitter: “I have through the PR Company representing me sent an official disclaimer on recent report of fraud by someone on Facebook using my name”.
“Please my real name on Facebook is Iyanya Onoyom Mbuk please disregard any other account that ask you to send money to them” he said.
The musician also published the real name and contact information of his manager and advised people to ignore anyone posing as him to ask for money.
Inyanya also mentioned some specific examples of imposters’ actions: “A lady called my manger last week from Ireland saying she almost sent 50k dollars to a fake Iyanya (imposter) for a show. Another guy from Uyo last night called that he gave someone who claims to be Iyanya money for a laptop and a phone and hasn’t seen the person”.
Inyanya called on whoever was behind the illegal acts to stop and warned that “We shall find you”

Monday 26 August 2013

8 signs of imminent marriage break-up

Infidelity is an enormous hurdle for a marriage to overcome, but just ending the affair is not enough. For a marriage to fully get past one spouse’s adultery, the unfaithful half of the couple cannot maintain a “friendship” with the former lover.

While healing an ailing relationship is usually what we all want, sometimes it’s wise to know when it’s time to let go. Every marriage is different, but there are some universal truths. For example, if one or both partners refuse to put in the effort to save the marriage, it’ll never get fixed. Another factor is time: “The clock starts ticking on the end of a marriage as soon as one spouse puts the couple’s problems out in the open,” says Bryce Kaye, PhD, author of The Marriage First Aid Kit. “The more time that passes after that without any effort made, the lower the odds are that you’ll stay together.”

Here are signs your marriage may be beyond repair.



1 . You’ve “uncoupled.”

Couples whose marriages are over, or nearly over, have usually uncoupled, or disconnected from each other. If you’re no longer spending any time together, if one or both of you is spending all your time at work, with friends, online and if feels like a relief not to be with each other, it’s a sign that you’ve already disengaged from the marriage.



2 . One spouse refuses to try.

There are a lot of damaging, seemingly insurmountable problems that some marriages encounter and rebound from, such as infidelity, the loss of a close family member and a long sexual drought. If one spouse repeatedly brings up an issue, asks for help and makes it clear that the marriage will not last unless they both commit to solving it, and the other spouse refuses to go along, the marriage is in trouble. One partner can’t do all the trying on his or her own.



3 . There’s a lack of respect in the relationship.

One of the most important aspects of a healthy marriage is mutual respect. When that’s gone, when one partner consistently feels dismissed, rejected and condescended to and the other partner doesn’t see it or refuses to talk through it, you’re in a bad place. Marriages that reach this place are toxic- you’re no longer civil, and all discourse is either attacking or defending.”



4 . You’re no longer a team.

It may sound hokey, but it’s true. In healthily humming-along marriages, both partners work as a team on everything from parenting to running the household to supporting each other in career and personal ambitions. If you’ve both started moving in completely separate orbits, or if you’re not working together on day-to-day issues, it’s a sign of serious trouble.



5 . An unfaithful spouse keeps an ex-lover as a friend.

Infidelity is an enormous hurdle for a marriage to overcome, but just ending the affair is not enough. For a marriage to fully get past one spouse’s adultery, the unfaithful half of the couple cannot maintain a “friendship” with the former lover. No matter what he or she says about the innocence of such a relationship, nothing good can come out of it.



6. No compromising in terms of wants and needs.

A major part of marriage involves trying to fulfill your partner’s needs while also making sure your own needs are met. It’s a lifelong dance, a give and take, and it requires constant communication. But if your partner continually refuses to listen to what you need (time, affection, sex/physical contact, help with children or chores), or refuses to share his own needs, you’re not in a good place.



7 . One spouse is a serial cheater.

Some men-and stereotypically this is men-are just not cut out for marriage; they are unable to remain monogamous, even if they seemed to have wanted to get married. What’s worse, they manage to put the blame for their philandering and untrustworthiness on you, usually for being too jealous or controlling. After the kind of affair a couple can recover from, there are regrets, apologies, and a promise to put an end to it and seek counseling. Not so with the serial cheater; that’s a problem you can’t fix, and likely spells the end of your marriage.



8 . Lack of communicate with each other.

No problem in a marriage can be solved without open, honest communication. If you’ve reached a point where all you ever talk about is mundane things, like who needs to buy milk, you’re in trouble. “Lack of personal, intimate exchange in a marriage is a very bad sign, especially if you are talking to others.

Beverly Osu,you are a diamond

 Despite all the insults last night, he still loves her unconditionally....Awww true friendship.
I know Nigerians are eagerly waiting to welcome her back with so much love...More tweets below

MBGN’s Anna VS Miss Bayelsa’s Harriet

The latest from the beauty pageant organised by the Silverbord Group led by Ben Bruce might not have been heard. The newly crowned Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria, Anna Ebiere Banner is a daughter of the soil. The Pageant organisers are from Bayelsa, the event that gave automatic employment to Banner as a Special Adviser to the governor was also held in Bayelsa the oil rich State.

For the records, another beauty pageant Miss Bayelsa 2013 was held before that of the MBGN. The event presents Edide Harriet, a model, actress and entrepreneur as winner. The beautiful lady popularly referred as Her Royal Majesty, Queen Edide and the MBGN’s Queen Banner are said to be having clash of supremacy over who rules in the state as the authentic queen.

While Edide is claiming to be the true queen of the soil, Queen Banner’s aide, we learnt, said it’s not true that their queen is the real queen and special adviser for that matter.

From the look of things, it’s not likely that the two 'royalty’ clash will be doused soon, as the two queens reside in the state. Though, the twobeautiful leggy queens of beauty are said to relate cordially, however, there are aides, as we gathered, are not helping matter as they are said to be nurturing grudges against each other over who controls Bayelsa State

Let's hope the appropriate authorities step into this issue soonest.

Queen Harriet was born on May 14th 1992, she hails from Odi in Kolokuma/Opokuma, Bayelsa State. Her hobbies include: cooking, watching movies, traveling, shopping, reading and sleeping. She is from a family of 8, 6 girls, 2 boys, she is the 5th child. She attended Igbeita Primary School odi as well as her secondary school before enrolling for her university degree in Bayelsa.

The MBGN 2013 winner, Anna Ebiere banner, had been Miss Abuja, Miss Kaduna, Miss Imo, Miss Bayelsa & Miss Adamawa. Anna will represent Nigeria at the Miss World beauty pageant to be held September 28 in Indonisia

Friday 23 August 2013

Sex with the ex is common for young adults

New research announced this week has analyzed the tumultuous love lives of late teens and young 20-somethings, finding breakups, reconciliations, and sex with exes a common ingredient.

The study relied on data from nearly 800 respondents who were 17 to 24 years old from more than 60 different schools.

"This study shows that there is a lot of fluidity in emerging adults' romantic relationships," says postdoctoral fellow Sarah Halpern-Meekin. "They are fairly likely to go through periods of being undefined or in flux. We are still learning what this may mean for young people's well-being and future romantic experiences."

Prior studies have shown that condom use is high at the beginning of relationships but tends to drop over time, reports LiveScience. While sex with an ex may be casual, exes may be less likely to use a condom than they would with a less familiar partner, LiveScience adds.

Brandy performs to near-empty stadium in Johannesburg

Brandy was supposed to be the surprise grand finale for the Mandela Sports And Culture Day, which took place last weekend, but the surprise turned out to be a flop.


Instead of performing to a full house, she found herself performing to a near-empty stadium after concert-goers left ahead of her spot, according to the Daily Mail.

The singer walked off stage after just two songs at the FNB Stadium in Soweto.

The stadium holds up to 90 000 people and had been packed throughout the day in celebration of the life of former president Nelson Mandela, but with the packed schedule almost finished, it emptied out before Brandy made her surprise entrance.

While Brandy is popular in the country, her surprise performance was not revealed to fans – who left thinking the day was over.

According to the Guardian newspaper there were no more than 40 people present.

Although tens of thousands of people filled the arena for the sports and culture day, the audience trickled out during the music segment.

After performances by David Jenkins, Elvis Blue, Salif Keita and D'Banj, there was almost no one left for Brandy, said The Guardian.

“Brandy performed to an empty stadium. With the stadium lights on,” tweeted South African musician, Kabomo.

“People didn't know there was a concert after the games. No one knew Brandy was around. Maybe a 40 people audience... She sulked after two songs and walked off.”

Other Twitter users couldn't believe their eyes.

One user, Crazy Girl Tutu, tweeted: “I gave up the min I saw the empty stadium. Brandy performing for the chairs!”

And another user, Dawn Ngwenya, wrote in surprise: “Well Brandy is going to perform for herself and Mbaks [sports minister Fikile Mbalula] only. Stadium now empty.”

Brandy’s performance was also cut out of the televised broadcast of the event. The SABC ended their coverage just before she performed, said Bella Naija.

Brandy's publicist could not be reached for comment.

Ben Affleck succeeds Christian Bale as Batman in 'Man of Steel'

US actor Ben Affleck will replace Christian Bale in the next Batman film, Warner Bros. Pictures said.

Affleck will appear in a Batman-Superman mega flick slated for release in 2015 that follows on the heels of this summer’s Superman hit Man of Steel.

Bale, who played the title role in Christopher Nolan’s Batman trilogy, had left the doors wide open for a new successor.

“We knew we needed an extraordinary actor to take on one of DC Comics’ most enduringly popular super heroes, and Ben Affleck certainly fits that bill and then some,” said Warner Bros. president Greg Silverman in a statement.

The film, which is not yet titled, will be directed by Zack Snyder, who was behind this summer’s Man of Steel starring Henry Cavill of Britain.

Cavill will appear alongside Affleck in the 2015 film.

“Ben provides an interesting counter-balance to Henry’s Superman. He has the acting chops to create a layered portrayal of a man who is older and wiser than Clark Kent and bears the scars of a seasoned crime fighter, but retain the charm that the world sees in billionaire Bruce Wayne,” Snyder said.

Man of Steel has earned some $650 million worldwide and $290 million in North America alone.

Affleck is no stranger to superheros, having played Matt Murdock in the 2003 flop Daredevil.

More notably, Affleck arrived at the pinnacle of Hollywood accomplishment in 2013 when his movie “Argo” won the Oscar for best film last February.

Man arrested for squatting at J Lo's estate

Police say an intruder had been living for a week on Jennifer Lopez's property in the Hamptons while she was away.

Southampton police said Wednesday the entertainer had an order of protection against 49-year-old John Dubis.

Information on why the order was obtained was not immediately available.

According to Newsday, workers found Dubis on the property on August 8 and called police.

He was arraigned on charges of burglary, criminal contempt, stalking and possession of burglar tools. He's due in court August 28.

Dubis is being held on $100 000 bail.

Newsday says the publicist for the singer-actress couldn't be reached for comment, and it was unclear whether Dubis had a lawyer.

Tuesday 20 August 2013

Wizkid, A ‘Spoil Brat’ Heading The Way Of Majek Fashek?

To say Wizkid is a kid might be an understatement, but looking at his age, you begin to wonder why some so called celebs don’t learn from the mistakes of those before them, who had all the fame and fortunes in their hands but messed up with it.

At 23, Wizkid is not too young to father a child, which he has reportedly and allegedly done. To say he’s suffering from a half baked-education might not be an excuse because Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg and others didn’t finish their educations but are world players today.

If I am not mistaken, Segun Obe didn’t finish from school but he’s doing well for himself. 2Face, who is the king of new generation artistes, didn’t finish from school, he is not only responsible but humble.

Pride they say, comes before fall. For an artiste to call a fan ‘broke’ is uncalled for. One of the reasons I personally don’t regard celebs is because like I always say, they are not better than a cleaner but only had a camera advantage on others.
Fans put food in their tables and cater for them. I hope Wizkid has not forgot how he used to clean and run errands for some artistes at OJB Jezreel’s studio in Surulere. How Banky W helped him to become what he is today, how this same fans spent their hard-earned money to buy his CDs, pay for VIP tickets just to hear him sing for less than 30mins when they can comfortably do that by buying his N50 CD at Alaba International Market. Lagos.

If such fan who has paid N1million for a table to just hear him sing his ‘jargons’ is now being called broke and poor, then this is likely to be the beginning of the end of Wizkid.

Maybe he should remember that no one reigns forever. Many years ago, Majek Fashek used to be the star, but today, where is he? This is not a sort of mockery of the veteran singer but our new stars should learn from mistakes of others to shape their lives. I hope tomorrow won’t come and someone brings sentiment and sympathy to get Nigerians to help Wizkid, God forbid. But the fact is, whatever you sow, you shall reap.

Nobody ever knew OJB Jezreel will cry out to Nigerians for help because he made money doing what he loved doing best some years ago. If he had called a fan back then ‘broke’, I wonder if anyone would help him today.

Wizkid, you don’t need to take my advice, but remember that ‘pride comes before fall.’

culled from: Nigeriafilms

I DON Port Master, Afeez Oyetoro Turns 50

Popular comic act in Nigeria, Afeez Oyetoro well known as Saka, is 50 today, Tuesday, August 20, 2013. The multi-talented actor has come a long way in the movie industry in Nigeria.

Until recently, he was a relatively unknown role-interpreter. He started to gain the consciousness of movie buffs few years ago. He is an actor that can tagged as stereotyped.

He became a national commodity when he 'ported' from Etisalat to MTN to promote the network's portability system recently introduced by the NCC, a body regulating telecoms in the country.

He is a lecturer at the Adeniran Ogunsanya College of Education, Ijaniki, Lagos. From Nigeriafilms.com, we say happy golden birthday to the 'port master'.


I can act nude for $50 million – Nollywood actress reveals

Things people do for money!
Upcoming Nollywood actress, Amanda Ebeye, has disclosed that she can act nude for $50million.

Here’s what she said in a recent interview:

“I can do everything because I’m an actress. For $50 million yes, I will do it. That’s why I am an actress, everything you want me to do I’ll do as long as you pay. For $50 million I can act nude. I respect my culture but people pretend a lot in Africa.”

culled from: dailystar

Friday 16 August 2013

“I Still Want To Get Married” – Kenny St. Brown

Gospel music act and former wife of Eddy Ashiedu, the one-time hip hop musician, Kenny St. Brown, who now wants to be called Kenny St. Best, has said that she still hopes to get married years after her marriage which produced a kid. This she made know recently when asked whether she still plans to get married and how life has been for her as single parent. She said; “I am a cute girl and still feel cute inside; I still think of getting married. Yes I will; most definitely.” On being a single mother, she said; “I am not a single mother; I am a single parent. A single mother gets the bill taken care of while a single parent plays the role of a father and a mother while still picking up the bills. It has been a tough job anyway. I enjoy it, as I said earlier, and it is really a lovely experience being a mother.”


Pictures of Kim Kardashian, Kanye West, and North West Surface

 The day has finally arrived. the primary non-official photos of Kim Kardashian, Kanye West, and North West get into public for the 1st time.

The family was noticed going out from a Los Angeles medical facility on Wed with their nanny. Not astonishingly, everyone looks very happy and healthy (Kim and Kanye truly smile around each other as they fill up their car).

You can inspect all the photos from the family's huge time out here.

Peter Okoye Spends Time With His Kids

Peter recently proposed to the mother of his two children, Lola Omatayo.

Peter Okoye and his fiancee Lola Omotayo already have two lovely kids, Cameron and Aliona Okoye.




Monday 12 August 2013

I Will Castrate Him!” Nollywood Star Uche Jombo on Infidelity – A Must Read

Listen up gents, Uche Jombo isn’t someone to mess with.

In a recent  interview with The Sun Newspaper, Uche is saying it like she means it when it comes to cheating.

While promoting her three latest productions (Misplaced, False and Lies Men Tell), the movie star was asked how she would react if her New York based business executive Kenny Rodriguez was a philanderer like Desmond Elliot‘s character in Lies Men Tell.

4 Words - “I will castrate him”.

She goes on to say -

    “To me, there is no excuse to cheat. It’s either you are with someone or not. And if you are tired of such person, please accord the decency of respecting who they are and their feelings, don’t go making someone look stupid because there is no excuse. The problem with me is there are no in- betweens.”

The interviewer later asked if she truly believes in what she’s saying or it was just for the interview, the actress replied saying -

    “I am saying I, Uche Jombo Rodriguez, don’t have in-betweens. So, that is why it takes me long time to make a decision or take a stand on something.

    And if I am to take on someone, we have to meet somewhere. There is no excuse not to honour an agreement you have made. This does not have anything to do with the interview; it has to do with the principle that guides me.

    It is not just about marriage, it is also about how I conduct relationships. It’s either it is this or that. If that is my thinking in a relationship, then you should know that for marriage it’s 150%, that there is no room for cheating.”

On if she believes her husband will or should not cheat on her

    “I don’t have control over what someone will do. I’m not God. I’m talking about me now, how I conduct things. So, I thought the question is about me. It’s not an option that it will happen; I will not tolerate cheating.”

More from the Interview

On if she will forgive the man who cheats on her – (Laughs) If you are in that situation Sam (The Interviewer), oh God, you are going to slave for me for life. And do you know any that will want to slave for a woman for life? Answer

On if she can ever cheat – Let me put it this way, I did not get married when I was young and stupid and I could believe almost everything. It took me a while to find someone who I thought was my soul mate.

On if she has ever called off a relationship because of cheating – Do you mean my past relationships? Isn’t that the only reason people quit relationships? Are you trying to go somewhere with this question? Because it sounds to me like you are.

She later says;
I have and I will. Sometimes, you have to give interviews and you have to hold yourself not to say things that people will not understand. I’m not a feminist; I am just an extremist. If we are in this, we are in this together. And if we are not, we are not; there is no in-betweens with me. I think life is too short for someone not to be happy.

If a guy isn’t happy in a relationship, he can take-off, likewise the lady. You don’t have to live your life for anyone and if cheating is the reason why you keep having problems, get your ass up and go and be happy. That’s all.

On a past relationship that she reportedly dated him because of his wealth, and if she was older than him -

I have never dated or married someone I was older than in my life. So, if you have the illusion of someone’s age, that is your business, and I am even too mature for my age. And that is the problem because men of my age are small boys around me; I can’t date them. I am someone who had to become a mother to some of my siblings at the age of 14.

So, I don’t know where the rumour came from. Because you are an under-achiever does not mean I should play down on my achievement. That age factor for you or a yardstick for you to succeed should not mean you should judge people with it, and I don’t have an apology.

I will continue to try to do what I need to do and to try to work harder as a person to be ahead, and if I’m learning from people who are older than me that is because I don’t hang out with my age mate. Because I don’t think there is anything else you want to teach me, and if you want to judge me by the people I hang out with or by when I started my hustle, where the hell were you at that time?

What really matters to me is that people that knew me during my not-too-proud days are so proud that this is me now. I have come far; it’s something I’m grateful for. I couldn’t have even written it better if it was a story because if you tap my mum now and ask her “What are you most grateful for?”, she will say Uche Obi because I was one of those kids that if you wake up my mum from sleep and ask “Which of your children will land you in police station?”, she would say it’s me. “Which of your kids would come home with teenage pregnancy?” It will be me.

At a point I felt that it’s about time I started talking about that part of my life to encourage teenagers. There was a time someone tried to blackmail me to the press, asking me to pay some money into a Zenith Bank account, and that if I refused to cooperate, he would tell the press I ran away from home at age 16.

I said “Bros, first of all, N 200,000 is small money if you want to blackmail someone”. “Secondly, if you want to tell the press a story, can you do it with the right date, time and age?”

I didn’t run away from home at 16, it was at 14. Now which of these people’s number do you need to confirm it because if at some point I have ever given you a reason that I was ashamed of my past, because that is why I’m here.

If I didn’t go through that, I wouldn’t have arrived here. So, I told him “When next you are calling my phone, let it be because you want the press numbers, if not, you are dialing the wrong number.”

for more interview

Toolz Claims Don Jazzy Has A Crush On Her

On Air Personality and host of online tv Ndani, Tolu Oniru a.k.a Toolz was a guest on the X-Generation programme, ‘Rubbin Minds’ where she revealed that ace producer and CEO of Mavin Records, Don Jazzy actually has a crush on her.

It was time for Ebuka to unleash his usual eye-popping questions on the celebrity of the week, a segment of the programme everyone wait eagerly for,to see who will be featured.

The least expected celebrity for this edition was Tolu Oniru popularly known as ‘Toolz’.

Deep into the interview, the Nigeria X-Factor host says people actually think that she has a crush on Don Jazzy, but she claimed that it is the one time producer of D-Banj and co-owner of defunct Mo’Hits Records that actually has a crush on her, when she was asked to explain what relationships that she’s shared with some male celebrities she’s interviewed on her shows.

Q: You mentioned earlier about people saying you interview someone and they end up saying you are dating, I want to call a few names  and you are going to answer Yes or No, or explain whatever it is you want to explain, if you dated them or not.

‘Don Jazzy’

Toolz: Don Jazzy is my personal person, Don Jazzy is like somebody that, he thought me a lot about the industry, he’s my personal person.

Q: Never dated?

Toolz: No

Toolz: People say that I have a crush on him, but I have to say he has crush on me

Q: So you think Don Jazzy has a crush on you?

Toolz: Don Jazzy is awesome and amazing.

The On Air Personality with one of Nigeria’s 21st century music radio stations, Beat FM, described Iyanya as a naturally flirtatious person and that is one of his selling points, but she never dated him.

Q: Iyanya

Toolz: No, I don’t know when that came about, when did i date Iyanya?

-I think there was a video; you guys were in the studio together, I think some talk started from there, he did an interview with you.

Toolz: Oh there we go, no, no, no Iyanya is naturally, like naturally flirtatious and I think that’s one of his selling points, but No.

She described rapper Lynxx as her very good friend, as someone she bickers a lot with and that they are very close.

Q: Lynxx

Toolz: No, Lynxx and I are like pals, we bicker a lot, and it’s kind of like, you now the way you have a friend and he’s a guy, the way you kind of develop your friendship is just yap, a kind of that person like that you say ‘ look at your head’ to so that’s it. We are quite close.

culled from Channels.

I won’t date a guy only for money

Blessed with good looks, Uche Iwuanyanwu is one of the rising actresses in Nollywood you cannot help but admire for her professional exploits. In this interview, she talks about her blossoming career, and why she prefers to star in Ghanaian movies and many more…

You are becoming more beautiful, and your shape is something else these days.What’s the secret?

I try to stay in shape these days because I am more mature now than before. I am careful about my diet. And I have always said that if you have got it, you should go head to flaunt it.

Let’s talk about sexual harassment in Nollywood. What is your own story?

I am a very pretty girl and it’s not as if I’m praising myself. You know when you are beautiful, certain things are bound to happen. So, I will be lying if I deny the fact that men don’t admire my beauty. Yes, they do, and almost ceaselessly. But I think the most important thing is for one to remain focused on your goals. If you are good in what you are doing, a producer will definitely find it difficult not to give you a role in his new movie simply because you refused to sleep with him.

Would you say your beauty has affected the way you relate to other people?

My beauty cannot affect the way I relate to other people. I am not the only beautiful girl in town. I am just the girl next door. No doubt, being beautifu has its own advantages. But it doesn’t mean that men should pay your bills. Despite your beauty, you should be able to work very hard to avoid depending on men for everything you need as a woman.

Recently, we have observed that rising actresses always land in big deals whenever we feature them in our celebrity pages!

Well, I am not aware of it. But it is possible for that to happen. I am not here to castigate anyone. It’s a free world. If they decide to help themselves that way while waiting for the big break in acting, then it is their own cup of tea. But I won’t date a guy simply because he has money to throw around.

What is your idea of sex?

Is sex not supposed to be between a man and a woman when they are married? I am not married; hence I am not supposed to discuss sex other than what I have just said. You can ask me this question when I’m married

Aren’t you in a relationship?

I am in a relationship and I love my man. But it’s my private life. I don’t want to talk about it here. I will speak passionately about it when I am married.

How far can you go in interpreting a role?

As far as I can go to interpret that role. Like I said earlier, if I have to interpret a role in the bedroom, instead of wearing a bra and a pant, I would prefer to wear a bum-short and a bra- top or better still, wear a two-piece swimming suit and interpret the role in a swimming pool. That’s acting. And if the bum-short doesn’t interpret the role well enough, the director diverse a means to make up.

These days ladies are doing everything to look sexy?

I thank God that Iam who I am. But if I wasn’t born this way, I wouldn’t have been happy with myself. And if it means going under the knife to get it, so be it. I am not going to castigate the women who do it because life would be very boring if you do not have what it takes it to ‘flaunt it.’ No one would take notice of you.

How come you were not nominated for our sexiest in Nollywood project?


I wasn’t in the country and more so, I lost my Black Berry. I guess my friends tried my GSM lines but couldn’t reach me.

If you have the money, would you go under the knife to enhance what God has given to you?

I won’t go under the knife because I am beautiful. But if I was not born this way, perhaps l would have given it a trial.

Can you date a guy who promises to buy you an expensive car?

I cannot date a guy for his money no matter what. Except I love him

© Vanguard

Women risk their lives for bigger buttocks

Women across the world are risking their lives for illegal procedures to make their buttocks bigger, often involving home-improvement materials such as silicone injected by people with no medical training.

Some want to fill out a bikini or a pair of jeans. Others believe a bigger bottom will bring them work as music video models or adult entertainers. Whatever the reason, they are seeking cheaper alternatives to plastic surgery – sometimes with deadly or disfiguring results.

Deaths from illegal buttocks injections have been reported in Alabama, Georgia, Florida, Pennsylvania, Nevada and New York. An interior decorator in Mississippi faces trial in the deaths of two women who were injected at her house.

Though there is little data on the procedures or injuries they cause, doctors and authorities say they are seeing this more often. Online forums used to set up the illegal procedures have attracted thousands of responses.

Very big buttocks have been popular in hip-hop videos for years. But Dionne Stephens, who studies race, gender and sexuality in hip-hop culture at Florida International University, said celebrities such as Jennifer Lopez, Beyonce and Kim Kardashian are popularising the look among an increasing number of women of all races and ethnicities.

Brown's story

For 46-year-old Apryl Michelle Brown, the path to an illegal injection started with people teasing her as a child about having a "pancake butt". Years later, a woman walked into Brown's beauty salon in California and told her she could make her butt bigger with injections.

The following week, she was at the woman's house getting injections.

It wasn't long before the injection sites got hard and painful. Brown eventually began looking for doctors to remove the material, which she learned was an industrial silicone, available at a home improvement store.

After surgery in 2011, a staph infection left her near death. Both hands and feet were amputated. Today, Brown has a website and speaks on the topic, trying to convince others that they are beautiful the way they are.

Illegal procedures

Despite a lack of data, there's anecdotal evidence that the illegal procedures are becoming more common.

In April 2007, someone posted this question on the website Topix.com: "Is there any truth to this madness about some type of butt injections to make your butt bigger? Someone enlighten me!"

There have been more than 14 000 responses.

Investigators say a Georgia woman who died after getting injections in Mississippi in 2012 used the Internet to find someone to inject her. She woman drove to the home of Tracey Lynn Garner, an interior decorator with no medical training. The cost was ±R15 000.

The woman died of blood clots in her lungs a few days later. There was so much of a "silicone-like" substance in her buttocks that it spilled onto the floor and "all over the place" when a medical examiner cut into her during the autopsy, according to an investigator's testimony.

Garner is charged with murder and has pleaded not guilty. Garner was later charged in the 2010 death of an Alabama woman and also pleaded not guilty to that charge.

Dr John Martin, a plastic surgeon in Florida, said illicit cosmetic procedures have become common. Sometimes multiple people are injected in hotel rooms in "pumping parties".

Hard nodules

Some people have silicone injected in their faces, where it can cause protruding, rock-hard nodules, but it's easier to treat than the large amounts injected into the buttocks. It's so difficult to remove very large amounts of silicone from the buttocks that many doctors, including Martin, won't even try.

"When you put in a large amount of silicone, it can drift. If I fill your butt with this huge amount of silicone, it can run down your leg and mean you have to get your leg amputated," Martin said.

It can also cause infections and blood clots. If the needles hit a blood vessel, the silicone can enter the blood stream and work its way to the lungs, Martin said.

What would doctors do?

Doctors won't perform buttocks injections, but they do offer lifts and buttocks implants. Doctors performed more than 3 700 of those legal procedures last year, generating more than $17 million, according to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons.

The average fee for a legal buttocks implant is ±R45 000, according to the organisation.

In a Florida criminal case, Shatarka Nuby paid ±R20 000 for injections at people's homes, according to police reports.

Nuby died on March 17, 2012. She had received the illegal buttocks injection numerous times from 2007 to 2011, authorities say, and died from acute and chronic respiratory failure from the silicone.

- Health24

Tinsel is Nigeria’s best TV production

Victor Olaotan plays the lead role as the character of Fred Ade-Williams in popular television series, Tinsel. He speaks with Joan Omionawele on his childhood, journey through life and career. Excerpts

You were a broadcaster for a while before you moved into acting. Why the u-turn?
Well, I have always been an actor. I had my first breakthrough in acting in 1959. My official professionalism was shown in 1974. It was entitled Candle in the Wind and it was the first television movie on Nigerian television.

How and why were you chosen for the lead role in Tinsel?
It was just grace. I understand over 500 people auditioned for the role, but I was chosen. I was surprised because I am an actor that does not jump all over the place to get my face seen, and I had left the industry for over 20 years sojourning in the United States. I have been in the industry for a while. A reporter was talking to me sometime ago and asked ‘Don’t you consider yourself lucky? You just came into the industry and you are at the top!’ I said, ‘Is that so?’ It has nothing to do with me being a fantastic actor or being special.
So you don’t consider yourself a fantastic actor?
Not yet.

When would you be one?
Maybe when you see me in Hollywood...

Are you going back to the United States?
No, I have plans to work from here.

When you came back to Nigeria, was it easy for you to adjust and get a job? What was the transition process like?
By the way, at the time I returned, I was running an engineering company in Nigeria where I trained computer Engineers. I had to close it because Tinsel is a full time job as we have to get to work by 6am and leave by 7-8pm, and sometimes 10 or 11 depending on how many scenes we have to shoot.

That means you are getting a very fat pay
This might sound funny, but Tinsel is not really about the money; (it’s about) the platform it gives. It gives you an international platform as it’s transmitting in 47 countries in Africa, in Britain, France and in the United States and Asia. There is no platform that equals that. If you come to Tinsel to think you are coming to make big bucks, you will be totally disappointed. You have to think more of your career.

What do you derive from acting?

Acting gives me a lot of joy and pleasure. I am a director by training and an actor by profession.

Who was the first woman you ever fell in love with?
(Laughs) Where did you get that question from? I was a mass server because I was born a Catholic, and there was this girl in the choir then and I had my eyes for her on the altar...

What if the Reverend Father had caught you?
‘Forgive me Father’ (laughs).

What were the pranks you played as a kid?
I played a lot of pranks. I played so much pranks that when my father died in 1968, my family decided to transfer me to Ilesa to school there. They could not control me; my father was the only one who could, as he was a police officer. So, I was sent to stay with my uncle, who was also trained by my father.

We have reports that it is very difficult for people to get roles in Tinsel. Why is this so?

As I said earlier, there are young people who want the platform, and once the bells of auditions are rung, probably the whole Lagos wants to come. Everyone wants to be part of something that is good. I think Tinsel is the best TV production on Nigerian television.

You dumped the media for acting. Is acting more lucrative than the media?
Technically, yes; but given the Nigerian factor, there are so many factors involved. How you make it or not depends on how you play the game.
There is Nollywood, mainly controlled by the Igbo people; and most of the time, they would rather have their own people being the stars. And I love that because that is their way of bringing people up. The industry (acting) was mainly controlled by mainly Yoruba in the past. We had Moses Olaiya, Baba Sala, Duro Ladipo, Kola Ogunmola as the stars of the industry back then. But now, the Igbo boys have made a lot of money for themselves. We also have the Hausa industry, which is even bigger than the Igbo. They have a channel on DSTV, which the Igbo have not been able to get.  And then, you being an actor, some of the good stuff that you have put out there would make people want to work with you; your attitude and character would make people want to work with you. When people know that you are a professional, they want to work with you.
But sometimes, the finances are not so encouraging for some actors. One can do 50 movies and may not be able to buy a brand new car, because each movie doesn’t fetch much. In a professional environment, you find people who do just one movie and they might not have to do anything else in their lifetime. When Tom Cruise did Mission Impossible, the first pay he got was $45 million. Imagine me getting $45 million. I don’t need to do any other movie for the rest of the life that I have left (laughs).
We also don’t have very wealthy producers in Nigeria; everybody shoots a movie and says it’s a low budget movie. You never hear a producer say this movie is $500 million; we want to do everything it takes. We never hear that. They will beg you to bring your pay down. At the end of the day, you work very hard.

Why did you leave ‘the good life’, as it is the general notion that when one is abroad, they are automatically rich. Is it not better there than here?
If you stay in a country for over 20 years and you are not fulfilled in what you are doing, then you need to find greener pastures. When I was in high school, initially I was playing football. But drama has always been my first love. I did not intend spending that long abroad. They used to tell me Nigeria’s economy was poor, but I was seeing all my friends becoming big. I used to know Mike Adenuga when he was younger. He used to sell radios in Dugbe back then, and I said if people in Nigeria can become that wealthy, there must be something there. To be realistic, there is more wealth in Nigeria than in the US for a Nigerian. I had done it all in the United States. So I decided to come back home.

Not much has been heard about your family? Did you leave them there?
Some of them are here, but I have most of them back there.

What was growing up like?
I come from a Christian home. In my home, we had a shrine. Our great grandfather worshipped Ogun and Sango and the rest. My father had some pigeons which he named Jacob, and whenever he said ‘Jacob’, they all flew to him. When he died, they disappeared. He was a staunch Catholic and never missed the 5 ‘o’clock mass though. The funny thing about life is that as much as we are Christians, some of us are still very superstitious.

I come from a very disciplined home. My dad made sure we were very neat and ensured we had good education. In fact, my primary school curriculum is better than most secondary school curricular today. It’s really unfortunate. My dad was very mean, in a good way, because he made sure everything had to be right. Part of it rubbed off on me.

Did your father force you to worship at the shrine?
No, he never did.

What were the things he used to do at the shrine?
He would go there, spill the blood of one of his pigeons on the ground and pray against enemies.

People say you are a ‘ladies man’. Is that true?
That’s a lie; I’m a serious person. I don’t mess around, and if ladies like me, I don’t fall for their antics. I have been tried several times. Maybe when I was younger, I could easily get attracted to women, but these days, I don’t even look at them.

How do you manage stress?
I play tennis at the Country Club and I had someone teaching me Kung fu at a point. I also take my children out and we swim and play. I club a little; that is when we go for an award and we will end up in the club or an after-party.

Your wife doesn’t complain?
 My wife is in the industry too. She knows what I do.

Are you fulfilled as an actor, as a man?
Yes, I thank God. I have a good wife. I have beautiful children. I think I have a special gene. My daughters are very beautiful and my sons are very handsome. I am blessed. The only thing that is missing in my life is Hollywood.

Source: Tribune

Wednesday 7 August 2013

7 Personal Branding Lessons To Learn From D'banj

Personal branding, as you would know it, is about everything you do; going by the term, it is you as a brand.

Every job, every social and personal endeavor is tied to your personal brand. You can’t go wrong if you focus on that. Dapo Oyebanjo, famously known as D'banj has some lessons for us:

#7. Blow your trumpet. Not the Harmonica.
There’s a mental appeal to “I’m Dbanj!” . Everytime. Bursting out your speakers, you recognise the voice and probably hum along. For some people, this may come across as a gratuitous display but we overlook the psychological impact it spawns.

Whatever motive or element of character prompts the action doesn’t matter. The message remains clear. If you don’t praise yourself, or “toot your own horn”, who will?

You don’t need to rub it in people’s faces that you graduated with a first class degree from Harvard, there are a bazillion people like you already. But you should always pitch yourself. You are a brand remember? And brands are not made to sit in the laps of its makers but to be shipped, pitched, sweet-talked, into the minds of people.

#6. Your network says a lot about you.
Successful people are not lone rangers and Dbanj makes no mistake about it. The acclaimed nephew to Snoop Lion makes seemingly strategic moves to be with/around people who have gained high level of popularity and are loved by a number of people; Kanye West for example..

Move with people who’d stretch you beyond your comfort zone. You carry on a more appealing brand when you spend time with quality people.

“You now have to decide what ‘image’ you want for your brand. Image means personality. Products, like people, have personalities, and they can make or break them in the market place.” – David Ogilvy

#5. Match your style with your personality.
Seriously, the “dress how you want to be addressed” saying works. You look like a farmer, you’ll be addressed that way.

Confident, poised, Dbanj lives up to his taste and matches it with his style. Every darn detail.
According to a research in psychology, attractive people are more likely to get successful faster than average people who probably pay little attention to their appearances. It’s not a wonder why he bags awards and signs deals after deals.

#4. It’s OK to “fake it till you make it”.
Perception is everything in our world today. Dbanj probably ended up looking like Rick-Ross-hit-the-gym in his bid to throw a new look with Kanye’s signature beard, but that’s a reflection of where he aspires to be.
Most successful people start out (early on) with mentors or notable persons they want to take after, usually; they turn out more refined and very very successful.

Whatever you aspire to be, look out for people doing remarkably well – study their biographies, updates on their achievements and basically any information you can find on them. Pick out what you like most about these people and modify to suit your person.

#3. Be innovative.
Dbanj “invented” the following words/slogans – in order of preference; Tongolo, kokolet,The koko, Eja nla, (the reincarnation of) Oliver Twist, why me?, Oshey! File! etc etc. I might just feel good about myself if you called me a Kokolet – it wouldn’t matter whether I’m having a bad hair day or not. These widely accepted catchwords are all accrued to the energetic crooner himself, making it very possible for him to create a name around his passion.

#2. Entertain people.
You’ll agree most of Dbanj’s songs were hits, topping charts in Nigeria and around the world. His performances and (which people add to their collection of dance moves), or that he speaks gibberish sometimes; Dbanj is recognised as an entertainer.

You want people to enjoy having you as company? Find out what makes them tick, know a little more about them, it’ll set you a stage and perhaps earn you a standing ovation.

#1. Stand out. Be unique.
Dbanj stood out for introducing the harmonica into his first few songs, a fusion with pop that rocked for a long time. Yes the harmonica stood him out. His “marriage” to Don Jazzy stood him out.

To strengthen the headlines, Taiwo Oyebanjo was referred to as Dbanj’s sister; it simply attracted more attention; largely because of his fame – which would have been impossible if Dbanj chose to stick to the rules.

You want people to enjoy having you as company? Find out what makes them tick, know a little more about them, it’ll set you a stage and perhaps earn you a standing ovation.

A final note:
- Your circle of influence matters.
- If you want to go far, find someone who can shoot you to the top and ride that horse!
- It’s your identity, love it, talk about it.
- Perception is everything; observe how you come across to people. Value opinions, sift through irrelevancies and adjust as necessary.
- It’s not really about working harder, but making smart choices and moving with the ‘right’ people.
A conscious work on your personal brand helps you evolve faster, makes you unique, valuable and powerful; allowing you flaunt your strengths. Once you know what’s compelling about you, you’ll use that as an anchor to build a strong career.Strong brands attract premium offers, Dbanj is one no doubt. Don’t believe? Check out his accolades.

MTN Project Fame academy places 5 contestants on probation, showcases its top 16






MTN Project Fame on Sunday revealed its top 16 contestants with an entertaining night of soulful music and entertainment, that was quite unforgettable. The performances moved from R& B, to gospel and old classics
handled by most with perfection. It was a good start, and with the quality of delivery this year’s MTN Project Fame looks like it is going to be tough for the judges.

With performances of ‘If I could turn back the hands time’ by RKelly, ‘Knock on wood’ by Eddie Floyd, Alicia Keys’ ‘Girl on Fire’, ‘Aye Ole by Infinity’,‘I’ll be there’ by Mariah Carey and ‘Waiting to Exhale’ by Whitney Houston to name a few it was a good night of entertainment.

The judges after all the performances placed 5 of the contestants on probation for various reasons noting they were below www.projectfamewestafrica.com standards. These contestants could be leaving the academy this Saturday unless voters/viewers save them by voting through the MTN short code 306.


The contestants who are walking the tight rope of probation are Ayoka (Voting # 1), Oluchi(Voting # 15), Simon (Voting # 17), Rowland(Voting # 16) and Leonard(Voting # 11) to vote for them send their number to 306 from an MTN line. This year MTN PF is giving away a new Accent car for the highest voter which is a welcome development and will encourage viewers to vote both for the contestants and themselves at the same time.


Who knows who is going home this week? Stay tuned to STV, ONTV, Soundcity, NTA & MiTV to catch all the daily activities in the academy. The show has several more weeks to go and many more eliminations before the winners emerge. All in all project Fame rewards more talent than other shows, and gives the top four contestants cash and cars too. This year the prize money has been doubled so that the winner gets N5m plus and SUV, 2nd gets N3m and a car, the 3rd place gets N2m and a car and the 4th goes away N2m richer. That is not a bad deal for many of the contestants who have not seen that kind of money before. Let us see if the money will make @ayoka_pf, @oluchi_pf, @simon_pf, @leonard_pf and @rowland_pf perform well enough to excape elimination on Saturday’s gala show. One thing is sure there will be good music.

Federal Government declares August 8 & 9 public holidays to mark Muslim celebration

The Federal Government of Nigeria has declared Aug. 8 and Aug. 9 public holidays to mark the 2013 Eid-el-Fitri celebration.

The Minister of Interior, Mr. Abba Moro made this declaration on behalf of the FGN.  In the statement signed by the Permanent Secretary in the Ministry, Mrs Fatima Bamidele, Muslim faithful were urged to use the spiritual benefits of Ramadan to contribute to the development of the nation.

The statement also urged Nigerians to exploit the spiritual benefits of love, joy and peace in their daily living and to use the opportunity of the holidays to reflect on the imperative of peace in nation building.

It wished all Nigerians a rewarding and peaceful celebration.


By: Tope

Driver Has Sex With Student, Posts Nude Photos On Internet

A 27-year old driver has been arrested and charged  before Apapa Magistrate’s court in Lagos for allegedly having sex with his girlfriend, a 23-year old Lagos State Polytechnic student, Thelma Lawrence, and posting her nude photo on the internet.

    Henry Aiyenero allegedly committed the illicit act in his house at Ajegunle, Lagos State, southwest Nigeria.Aiyenero  who works at Ifelodun Local Council Development Area, LCDA, as driver was said to have humiliated his girlfriend that way because she allegedly denied him sex for a long period.




    Delta State-born Aiyenero allegedly lured the victim to his house at 9, Ogungbe Street, Ajegunle where he allegedly  threatened her with a knife and forced her to strip herself.
    Thereafter, he  used his mobile phone to take her nude photos and also recorded it on video and threatened to post it on the internet if she refused to have sex with him.
    The victim allowed him have his way but he went ahead and posted it on the internet and gave the video to his neigbours to watch.

He was charged before Apapa Magistrate’s court on a five-count charge bordering on criminal intent  under the criminal code.
According to the police, the defendant deliberately and  unlawfully, with criminal intent, intimidated, annoyed and violently threatened the victim with a knife and had sex with her and thereafter, he displayed her nude photo on the internet.

    According to the victim, she knew Aiyenero in Ajegunle where a street is named after his.
    She admitted that they are friends and not lovers and whenever they met, they  usually greeted and discussed but not to the extent of having sex.
    She said whenever he talked about sex, she  usually turned it down.
    On what took her to his house, she said he collected her memory card and when she needed it, he asked her to come to his house to collect it.
    She said she did not suspect any foul play and when she went to collect it and entered his room, he immediately locked the door, brought out a knife and threatened to kill her if she did not coperate with him.
    “He ordered me to pull off all my clothes while still holding the knife and I obeyed him and he brought out his phone and started video-taping  me while I was nude and  threatened that if I refused to have  sex with him, he would post it on the internet,” she narrated.She said he had sex with her and still went ahead to post it on the internet and sent it to their neighbours who watched it and told her.

On why he did it even after sleeping with her, she said Aiyenero said she refused to sleep with him after pleading with her for a long time.

    On his part, Aiyenero said she was his friend and she has been coming to his house and later they separated.
    He admitted that he recorded and took her nude photographs but he was not the person that posted it on the internet.
    When he was arraigned in court, he pleaded not guilty.

The presiding Magistrate, Mr P. E. Komonanya granted him bail in the sum of N20,000 with one surety in like sum.
The matter was adjourned till 4 September, 2013.
He was remanded in prison custody pending when he will meet his bail conditions.

Monday 5 August 2013

Jermaine Dupri My EVIL Bank Screwed Me Out of MILLION$

Hip Hop mogul Jermaine Dupri says his bank wined-and-dined him, then treated him like an uneducated idiot in a plot to snatch millions of dollars from him ... TMZ has learned.

We broke the story ... Sun Trust Bank sued the So So Def founder first, claiming he defaulted on a $5 million loan. The bank wanted $2 million for the balance plus interest ... AND his entire EMI music catalog.

Now, Dupri is firing back with a counter lawsuit ... and in the docs, he says he secured a $5 million loan in 2009 with his ST personal banker -- a man he'd worked with for years, who was lenient on loan payments and hooked him up with swag: ATL Falcons tickets, dinners, and more.

Then, in 2010 Dupri claims his personal banker took advantage of his lack of education (he didn't finish high school) and told him he had to quickly sign a NEW loan agreement, assuring him it was for his benefit.

But Dupri says in fact the new terms increased his loan payments without his knowledge. As a result ... he defaulted, and had to sell off his music catalog and his studio to settle with the bank.

This ain't chump change on the line -- according to JD his studio was worth $2.5 million, and his catalog ... $20 million!

So so painful.

Nigerian Fans blame Denrele For Bringing Beverly Into The Big Brother House



I Am Only 27, I Still Have Time To Get Married – Uche Ogbodo

Here’s what Nollywood actress, Uche Ogbodo, told Nonye Ben-Nwankwo of PunchNg about her career, Afrocandy, Harrysong and love life.

All of a sudden, you are seen in many movies unlike before. Why are movie, producers courting you now?

Are they really courting me? Well, I don’t think I work more than other actresses. I know that my spirit and
my zeal to do better in my job have pushed me further. That I am everywhere is just because I am persistent and I try to improve on any job that I am given.

Going by how long you have been around, you should have moved higher in your career …

I am working according to the pace that God has set for me. I don’t want to be anybody else; I want to be me, according to the destiny that God has given me. I don’t think that my contemporaries are doing better than me. I came into the industry in 2006 and I think I have made something for myself. There are so many others who were there before me, but they have not reached the level I have attained in the industry. They are still seen as up and coming actresses. Some people rose to fame through other means.

Like?

They rose to fame through bad life, scandals and stuff like that. I don’t want to be known for bad things. I want to be known for good things. I am a role model to so many people and I want to remain like that. I want to be remembered for something good. I want to rise to fame by doing good stuff. I want to be known for the good reasons.

But you have not been free from scandals since you came into the industry…

Maybe that is true, but I don’t call them scandals, I call them minor mistakes. I might call them ‘mini scandals’. I have tried some things that some people perceived to be scandal. I know that I don’t live a scandalous life.

A picture of you kissing Harrysong went viral some time ago. Was it publicity stunt or were you actually caught in the act?

It wasn’t a publicity stunt. It was nothing. In fact, my friend and I were hanging out during his birthday and we were just drunk and having fun and playing a game. I just gave him a birthday kiss. Look at the picture very well, it wasn’t a deep kiss. It was a simple birthday kiss. Harrysong is not my boyfriend; he is my good friend. I have never had anything to do with him but we are very close. So, it was just simple birthday kiss that I was just jokingly plastering on his face and people were taking pictures that day.

Where was that?

It was at the beach and it was his birthday. When Harry realised that a lot of people were taking pictures, I had to ask him if he was bothered about it. There was no way we would tell everybody to delete the pictures. It would have looked as if we were hiding something. I was just playing with my friend and I think I have the right to do that; it is my life. I wasn’t giving Harry a deep kiss, I am not known for such act. People were just fishing for scandal.

The issue with Afrocandy, the soft bad producer also went viral. What really happened? Did she approach you personally to feature in her movie?

She didn’t approach me personally to say I should star in her movie. But she released a statement on her Facebook wall. I saw the statement because a lot of people drew my attention to it. I didn’t know who she was, but I had heard of her because the media had been saying unpleasant stuff about her.

Was that why you sent out your own statement about you not being a bad actress?

Being who I am, I didn’t take a second thought before I issued my statement. Her Facebook statement could have meant so many things. It could have been that she admired me and wished to be in a movie with me. It could have also meant she wanted me to star in her bad movie. I didn’t think of the former before I released my statement. A lot of people choose to take the negative than the positive, so I needed to clarify some issues to some people who might have thought I was considering going into badography. I don’t have anything against her. She is a Nollywood actress, but I cannot live her kind of lifestyle. I am so decent even in the movies. I told her that I wouldn’t be able to feature in her movie and even if I have to become a bad actress, I would have to do it professionally and with a higher industry and certainly not cheap bad.

She replied your statement…

Oh yes. She replied and blasted me. But I didn’t react. I wouldn’t want to cheapen myself. I would have been promoting her if I had done that.

But we learnt you sent friendship request to her on Facebook?

I don’t know her. I don’t think she is my friend on Facebook. It is funny. She was just trying to make herself important. I know who I am. I have well over 24,000 followers on Facebook. I don’t think I sent a request to her. I can only do that to people who are bigger than me, especially big companies. I don’t use Facebook to connect to anybody or set up a friendship. I have so many messages on my wall but I cannot reply. They are so many. This was somebody who said she wanted to act alongside me and some others in her movie. It then meant she had some high regard for me. I didn’t go to meet her and beg to be in her movie. She is not the kind of person I would want to relate with. I want to be friends with women of substance. I want to be known for good reasons and not bad. I want to be friends with people who live a good life.

Would featuring in her film have been a bad idea?


I am not a bad star. I don’t want to act in a bad movie. I want to get married. I want to have children and be a good wife and mother. This is Africa and not Hollywood. Nobody can ever see me go unclad in the movies. Nobody has ever seen me take off my clothes and show any part of my body in the movies.

Really, but you said you can act unclad some time ago?

I said that but I attached a lot of conditions to that statement. But people chose to take the first part and went to town with the story that I said I could act unclad. I only said I could act unclad if my culture and tradition permit me. Am I crazy to say I want to act unclad? If I weren’t in a community that would criticize me if I act unclad, then I could do it. That was what I said. I respect my tradition.

Going back to Afrocandy, why do you think she added you to the list where she had Anita Joseph and Cossy Orjiakor?

I wouldn’t know. Maybe she sees strength in the three of us. It maybe she also saw confidence and an ‘I can do all things,’ spirit in all. Otherwise, I wouldn’t know why she would put me in their category. I don’t have butts like Anita. My “oranges” are not as big as Cossy’s. I wear a size 34D. I just have broad shoulders.

But we learnt you did breast enlargement recently?

But look at my breasts. You can touch them to see if they are real or fake. My breasts are real. I can go on national TV and show the world that my breasts are real. I have beautiful breasts. They are part of my best assets. I didn’t do any cosmetic surgery and I don’t have any form of silicon or plastic in my breasts. I am sure you must have been disappointed when you saw me.
What happened to that your boyfriend? the one abroad? We learnt he left you.

He didn’t leave me. I was the one that left him. It didn’t work out between us.

Whose fault was it?

It wasn’t anybody’s fault. I just decided he wasn’t good enough for me. He wasn’t what I wanted. Maybe I was young and naïve and when I took time to analyse things with my family, I realised I wouldn’t go into the relationship otherwise I would have been miserable and the marriage wouldn’t have lasted a year. We were engaged but we didn’t get married.

But the story was that you got pregnant for another person and he came back and dumped you…

That is a lie. None of that happened. He couldn’t have dumped me. He still wants me till today. He calls me and begs to marry me. I don’t live bad life. I am a different person. I am responsible.
There is no man that has been with me that has ever left me. I am usually the one who walks out. I am not married today just for reason best known to me. It is not every man you date that you must marry. A man can only leave his woman based on laziness or infidelity. I am not lazy and I am not scandalous. I don’t cheat on my man. I am always faithful so there wouldn’t be any reason for any man to dump me. I made up my mind and I am not going back to the guy. I am not 40 yet, I am not even 30. I am only 27. Am I looking so old that people think I can’t get married? I still have chances

Olamide Part Ways with Manager

Olamide has compound ways that together with his manager, Tony Nwakalor.

Investigations disclosed the combine stopped operating along, following commitment problems from each parties..

A supply near the rapper told USA he became unhappy with Nwakalor’s commitment to his career.

‘Olamide gave the impression to have lost confidence in Tony as a result of since operating with D’banj, Tony gave the impression to be a lot of committed to D’banj than him and it doesn’t work like that’, aforementioned the supply.

Olamide’s new manager UN agency gave her name merely as married woman, confirmed things, however declined giving any details.

‘Do you truly expect Pine Tree State to inform you that one thing happened? Nothing happened, he simply modified management and that’s all.’

D’banj employed Tony Nwakalor UN agency additionally manages player Tonto Dikeh simply 2 months past.

The affirmative Records boss replaced D’Banj’s former friend-manager Abisagboola Oluseun John, popularly referred to as Bankulli.

Nwakalor UN agency currently runs 1805 recreation and Olamide started operating along in August, 2011 once the rapper stopped operating together with his former manager, Toni Payne.

i fell out with Dbanj Again- Durella

“I apprehend there’s been lots of argument out there attributable to the song however ‘Blame it on the money’ is D’Banj’s song, I truly did my very own version once he did his own, simply attempting to check my very own ability.But folks square measure speech lots of things out there, churchilians, enemies are speech lots of things speech D’banj jacked Durella’s song. It’s a giant lie I’m telling you.”

    He conjointly went on to mention, “Actually my brother is angry with ME as a result of I did the song while not seeking his permission, however not withstanding, he's still my brother, we’re still family.”
    Still if Durella is to be believed, all isn't lost. as a result of “We’re still operating along by Gods grace, we’re still family. I’m happy to be doing this interview to clear the air.

Singer Flavour flaunts Back Tattoo


Chinedu Okoli (born Nov twenty three) higher celebrated by his pseudonym Flavour N'abania, or just Flavour, may be a prolific Nigerian recording creator, dancer, songwriter, and entertainer. Flavour N'abania began his music career taking part in drums at a neighborhood church in his town, Enugu State. Flavour shared this photo of his tattooed back on Instagram; what do you think?

Richard Mofe-Damijo's Son, Kome Set To Wed

As you're reading this, there's preparation for celebration galore within the family of the veteran actor, Richard Mofe Damijo as his 1st son, Kome, is about to run down, his lover of long-standing, Eniola to the aisle.

RMD as Richard is lovingly known as, created this far-famed via Associate in Nursing sms to his shut allies that Gregorian calendar month twelve and fourteen, 2013 are picked tentatively for the marriage of his son.

“Pls save twelfth & ordinal Dec in urban center diary for the union of our son Kome & his love Eniola, pls keep them in your prayer and a lot of updates to come back later. heat Regards…JMD & RMD.”

According to the sources, the 2} years recent Delta State Commissioner for Culture and Tourism’s two kids Brume and Kome ar full big young men currently.

'Angelo is only using Beverly Osu for S.e.x' - Angelo's Fiancée, Candice

Apparently, if you are one in all those fans supporting Nigeria’s massive Brother continent representative, Beverly Osu, whereas she throws herself at South African housemate, Angelo Collins, then you wish to induce this message across to her. Angelo’s South African bride-to-be, Candice Arends isn't taking the total show of shame funny and she or he has start to mention she is prepared to fight for her man as they're attending to marry before the tip of this year. . In associate interview with a South African web log, Candice created it clear that Angelo is simply having fun with Beverly which he can come to her at the tip of the fact program. She aforesaid that she and Angelo have a awfully serious relationship which she understands his moves within the house because the Nigerian woman is much throwing herself at him and he has no possibility however to require advantage of her. Enough aforesaid… i do know Beverly supporters are fast to throw bombs at American state however i'm solely news what Candice said o.

Thursday 1 August 2013

Tyra Banks Gives Bow Bow A French Kiss On International TV

If for love or money, BET 106 Parks host, Bow Wow was declared the happiest man on planet earth simply by being lucky. The rapper seed TV host dreams came alive once his old crush, thirty-nine year recent ex super model, Tyra Banks splashed him a osculation on a plata. Bow Wow was therefore surprised, he may fly. The fop visited unto seventh heaven and came on twitter with this lil message:

Bow Wow (MR 106) ‏@YMCMB_BW20h

Everybody im dropping the HD video in associate hour. the important VERSION keep TUNED. solely on my YouTube page. #Bowwowtyrakiss



Take a glance at these sweet pics !


Guess Who Got His Friend’s Wife Pregnant?

Simon Cowell may be a highly regarded man; I mean he’s continuously been noted particularly for his terribly cruel comments because the decide of yankee Idol and currently the X-Factor music competition. there's little question that Simon might be mean all told aspects of his life. however once he determined to betray his shut friend, Saint Andrew the Apostle Silverman by sleeping together with his woman, Simon simply got even meaner.

Except a person gets uncontrollably desperate or dead drunk, that he will really do that – know his friend’s girlfriend, woman or ex-wife speak less obtaining her pregnant and keeping the baby. If not then that very same man would be vicious or utterly selfish!

We hear of those stories time and once more however pray and want we tend to don’t get to be the victims of circumstance. It gets even a lot of attention-grabbing once it’s a noted face who’s concerned within the huge drama. Funny enough, X-factor stern decide, Simon Cowel has finally shown U.S.A. the intense he will visit get no matter he desires even once it's to involve him having AN affair together with his friend’s woman, having sex along with her and obtaining her pregnant and so keeping the baby and currently talking brazenly concerning however happy he's to be a father.

Wow! we tend to solely marvel if that friend of his – Saint Andrew the Apostle Silverman – can show up for the baby shower. however brutal is that? Did he get the opinion of his bosom friend whether or not he might bang his wife? Did they even point out it (her) in their hang around discussions? Did he keep it a secret all this while? Jeez! Simon ought to be a awfully trust worthy friend, won’t y’all agree?

It’s unhealthy enough a person gets to fulfill his friend nearly on weekly bases and can’t tell him the complete details of WHO he's chemical analysis however revealing that very same friend is unacceptable. might you bang your friend’s woman or ex and feel fly concerning it? “Men area unit dogs” is that the U.S.A.ual oral communication and that they keep giving us each smart reason to believe it each single day. nada it up guys and don’t commit crimes you'd regret for a life time.

Simon Cowell has been one man for a awfully long-standing and had your time confirmed he wouldn’t need to urge married. As for having youngsters, the just about no-conscience man aforementioned, “I’d need children if I knew I might be devoted. I’m undecided i might be smart for the primary six months some, however once they knew WHO I am…” yea Simon we tend to currently understand specifically which sort of man you're.

The X issue decide, 53, is expecting his terribly 1st kid with big apple town influential person Lauren Silverman,36, and also the mom-to-be continues to be technically married to real-estate mogul Saint Andrew the Apostle Silverman, WHO happens to be an admirer of Simon’s. each became terribly shut as her wedding to Saint Andrew the Apostle suffered an enormous hit. AN business executive told U.S.A. Weekly, that Lauren is “around ten weeks along” in her physiological state.

One will’t predict what a person will do and the way so much he can visit stab an admirer. Bet y’all area unit speculative a similar factor. Well, {we can|we'll|we are going to} like to want the couple a cheerful life and hope Simon will keep to his word of being ‘faithful’ once a toddler gets into the image.

Men area unit simply wonderful!